MIND & HEART: ASPECT OF LOVE.

 MIND & HEART: ASPECT OF LOVE.

By Abdi M. Abdallah.

What’s love? Does love exist? Is it love from the heart or love from the mind? How come it is my heart that loves? That I love you from the deepest part of my heart; from the bottom of my heart. Where is this deepest part and the bottom of my heart really? What then is this heart? The heart that feels and expresses love for you.

What’s the function of a heart? Is there a connection between the heart’s assigned role and love? Was my heart meant to love you? Does your heart and mine get hurt? Which part of your body hurts? Where do these feelings of love and hurt emanate from?

Where does love come from? Is it from my mind or my heart? Between my mind and my heart, who co-ordinates the functioning of my body? When I see you, what then tells me that I have never seen such a beautiful flower? Is it the heart that tells my eyes or my mind that does so? Does my heart have a thinking capacity? Does my heart store mental pictures too?

The heart, for the Biology maybe I do not understand, has a sole role of pumping blood to the whole of my body. So, do we have two hearts? One that does the pumping of blood and the one that loves. Or is it that the heart I have is dual purpose: blood pumping and loving. Where does hypertension result from? Is it the mind that overworks the heart or the heart overworks itself? Is this love transmitted through blood?

How come I love you so much? Why do I love you so much? That your absence makes me feel lonely than your presence. When did I start loving you? Was it love at first sight? How did it happen? My heart told me to love you. Is that so? How sure are you that I truly love you from the deepest part of my heart?

Where is my mind? (at this time of loving you). Has it gone nuts? To leave a sensitive function like this to my heart! That I keep thinking of you everyday! Does my heart really think about you? Does it feel anything called love for you? How do we call a feeling from the heart? What is the attitude of my heart towards you?

LIFE

LIFE By Abdi M. Abdallah

It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find courage to let someone know how you feel. May be God wants us to meet few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful to the gift. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friends is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is an assurance that they will love you back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.

There are things you would like to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from but, don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try- never give up if you still feel you can go on- never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go. Love comes to those who still hope although they’ve been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need love although they have been hurt before, and to those who have the courage and faith to build the trust again. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile to make a dark seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile. There are moments in life that you miss someone so much that you just want o pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Hope you dream of that special someone. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough money to buy you gifts. Always put yourself in others shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may heal and bless. The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our image- otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves that we find in them. The happiness of people doesn’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.