Saturday 8 October 2011

WHAT THEY SAID.

WHAT THEY SAID.

“Nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.”
-Oscar Wilde.

“You can’t argue with life because often it is just what it is … you have better luck when you accept it, love it, appreciate it, enjoy it and mostly live it.”
-South African Musician, Lira.

“You do not recite a poem to a man carrying a sword, you draw sword.”
-Anonymous Philosopher.

“Cherish your visions and dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.”
-Napoleon Hill.

“Successful men usually snatch success from seeming failure. If they know there is such word as defeat, they will not admit it. They may be whipped, but they are not aware of it. That is why they succeed.”
-A. P. Gouthey.

“Failure seldom stops you. What stops you is the fear of failure.”
-Jack Lemmon.

“Failure is an attitude, not an outcome.”
-Harvey Mackay.

“If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.”
Thomas Watson.

“You always pass on the way to success.”
-Mickey Rooney.

“Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.”
-Dr. Martin Luther King.

“Every man must do two things alone; he must do his own believing and his own dying.”
-Martin Luther King Jnr

“Everything that is done in this world is done by hope.”
-Martin Luther.

“Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but the means with which we arrive at the goal.”
-Dr. Martin Luther King.

“Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.”
Martin Luther.
“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.”
-Martin Luther King Jnr.

“There is no such thing as failure, only results, with some more successful than others.”
-Jeff Keller.

“Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you are going to do now and do it.”
-William Durant.

“Never walk away from failure. On the contrary, study it carefully … and imaginatively … for its hidden assets”
-Michael Korda.

“The difference between failure and success is doing a thing nearly right and doing a thing exactly right.”
-Edward Simmons.

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to learn forever.”
-Mahatma Gandhi.
“Whenever you are confronted with an opponent, conquer him with love”
-Mahatma Gandhi.

“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”
-Mahatma Gandhi.

“Be the change you want to see in the world.”
-Mahatma Gandhi.

“Poverty is the worst form of violence.”
-Mahatma Gandhi.

“Hate the sin and love the sinner.”
-Mahatma Gandhi.

“Leadership is a matter of having people look at you and gain confidence, seeing how you react. If you are in control, they are in control.”
-Tom Landry.

“Leadership is not so much about techniques and methods as it is about opening the heart. Leadership is about inspiration … of oneself and others. Great leadership is about human experiences not processes. Leadership is not a formula or a program, it is a human activity that comes from the heart and considers the hearts of others. It is an attitude, not a routine.”
-Lance Secretan.

“Hope is the companion of power and the mother of success. For those of us who hope the strongest have within us the gift of miracles.”
-Sydney Bremer.

“The human heart feels things the human eye cannot see, and knows things the human mind cannot understand.”
Robert Vallett.

“Do not wait for leaders. Do it alone person to person.”
-Mother Teresa.

“Management works in the system. Leadership works on the system.”
-Stephen R. Covey.

“Leadership has a harder job to do than just choose sides. It must bring sides together.”
-Jesse Jackson.

“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”
-Robert Louis Stevenson.

“Excuses are the nails used to build a house of failure.”
-Unknown.

“To the world you might one person, but to one person you might be the world.”
-Unknown.

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great people make you feel that you too, can become great.”
-Mark Twain.

“A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.”
-Erin Majors.

“It is always wise to look ahead, but difficult to look farther than you can see.”
-Sir. Winston Churchill.

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.”
-Winston Churchill.

“Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.”
-Winston Churchill.

“Tomorrow I will live, the fool does say: today it is too late; the wise lived yesterday.”
-Martial.

“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”
-Lao Tzu.

“He who knows others is learned. He who knows himself is wise.”
-Lao-Tzu.

“The fool wonders, the wise man asks.”
-Benjamin Disraeli.

“Creativity is allowing oneself to make mistakes; Art is knowing which ones to keep.”
-Scott Adams.

“The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction to carry on.”
-Walter Lippmann.

“Success seems largely a matter of hanging on while others have let go.”
-William Feather.

“If you don’t like something- change it; if you can’t change it- change the way you think about it."
-Mary Engelbreit.

“I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the streets I met a man who had no feet.”
-Ancient Persian saying.

“You will never find time for anything. If you want the time, you must make it.”
-Charles Buxton.

“Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth to action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.”
Tyson Edwards.

“He who controls the past commands the future. He who commands the future conquers the past.”
-George Dwell.

“Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it.”
-Confucius.

“Blessed are the forgetful for they get the better even of their blunders.”
-Freidrich Nietzsche.

“One person with a belief is equal to ninety- nine who have only interests.”
-John Stuart Mills.
“When it comes to getting things done, we need fewer architects and more bricklayers.”
-Collen C. Barrett.

“Catch a man a fish, and you can sell it to him. Teach a man to fish, and you ruin a wonderful business opportunity.”
-Karl Max.

“Wise man; one who sees the storm coming before the clouds appear.”
-Elbert Hubbarb.

“The wise speak when they have something to speak; the fool speaks when they have to say something.”
-Anonymous.

“Leaders understand the power of choice.”
-Anonymous.

“Concentrate your energies, your thoughts and your capital ___The wise man puts all his eggs in one basket and watches the basket.”
-Andrew Carnegie.

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters as compared to what lies within us.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

“Wise men put their trust in ideas and not the circumstances.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

“What we call results are beginnings.”
-R.W. Emerson.

“If you are walking down the right path and you are willing to keep walking, eventually you will make progress.”
Barrack Obama.

“We have to acknowledge the progress we made, but understand that we still have a long way to go. That things are better but still not good enough.”
-Barrack Obama.

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.”
-Barrack Obama.

“Faith does not mean that you don’t have doubts.”
-Barrack Obama.

“Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. And it will leave you unfulfilled.”
-Barrack Obama.

“Hope- Hope in the face of difficulty. Hope in the face of uncertainty. The audacity of hope! In the end, that is God’s greatest gift to us, the bedrock of this nation. A belief in things not seen. A belief that there are better days ahead.”
-Barrack Obama.

“My faith reminds me that we all are sinners.”
-Barrack Obama.


“It is only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you will realize your potential.
-Barrack Obama.

“It’s not just enough to change the players. We’ve gotta change the game.”
-President Barrack Obama.

“There are many questions which fools can ask that wise men cannot answer.”
-George Polya.

“A wise man never loses anything, if he has himself.”
-Michel de Montaigne.

“A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they necessarily don’t want to go but ought to be.”
-Rosalyn Carter (wife to Jimmy Carter).

“No one can make you inferior without your consent.”
-Eleanor.

“Mediocres centralize trivial issues and trivialize the central issues.”

“Those who fear to risk have nothing, do nothing and they are nothing.”

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift that why we call it the present.”

“Let us build those values that will enable us to overcome the challenges we encounter.”

“There is but one coward on earth and that is the coward that dares not to know.”

“It is what we make of what we have, not what we are given, that is what separates one person from another.”

“Every setback is a setback for bigger comeback.”

“The mind is not a vessel to be filled with but a flame to be ignited.”

“A plane cannot crush before it has taken off.”

“In the end we shall remember not the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends.”
-Dr. Martin Luther King.

“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part . Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement , it is the promulgation of promises of eternal  passion. That is just being in love which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is left over when being in love has burned  away and this is both an art and fortunate accident.”

“Don’t count every hour in the day, make every hour in the day count.”

“if I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?

“Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it but you can spend it.”

‘We say we waste time, but it is impossible. We waste ourselves.”

“Failures  don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan”
-Harvey Mackay.

“People begin to  become successful the minute they decide to be.”
-Harvey Mackay.

‘We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid.”
-Benjamin Franklin.

“The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen at once.”
-Albert Einstein.

“Take time to deliberate, but when the time for action arrives, stop thinking and go in.”
-Andrew Jackson (7th US President).

“Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.”
-Carl Sandburg.

“Obedience is better than sacrifice.”

“Success is a journey not a destination.”

“Everything is permissible but not everything id beneficial.”

“Imitation is limitation.”

“When the shadow of a tree is bent, straighten the tree not the shadow.”
-An African proverb..

“Don’t aim at breaking somebody’s record, set your own record.”

“opportunity is missed by many because it’s dressed as an overall and looks like work.”
-Thomas Edison, US Inventor (1837-1841).

“A man has to hold his manhood for urine to have direction.”

Self-esteem quotes.
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
-Buddha.

“Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them and try to follow where they lead.”
-Louisa May Alcott..

“Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you?”
-Fanury Brice.

“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.”
-Harvey Fienstein.

“You are free to think but don’t think you are free.” 





MIND & HEART: ASPECT OF LOVE.

 MIND & HEART: ASPECT OF LOVE.
By Abdi M. Abdallah.


What’s love? Does love exist? Is it love from the heart or love from the mind? How come it is my heart that loves? That I love you from the deepest part of my heart; from the bottom of my heart. Where is this deepest part and the bottom of my heart really? What then is this heart? The heart that feels and expresses love for you.

What’s the function of a heart? Is there a connection between the heart’s assigned role and love? Was my heart meant to love you? Does your heart and mine get hurt? Which part of your body hurts? Where do these feelings of love and hurt emanate from?

Where does love come from? Is it from my mind or my heart? Between my mind and my heart, who co-ordinates the functioning of my body? When I see you, what then tells me that I have never seen such a beautiful flower? Is it the heart that tells my eyes or my mind that does so? Does my heart have a thinking capacity? Does my heart store mental pictures too?

The heart, for the Biology maybe I do not understand, has a sole role of pumping blood to the whole of my body. So, do we have two hearts? One that does the pumping of blood and the one that loves. Or is it that the heart I have is dual purpose: blood pumping and loving. Where does hypertension result from? Is it the mind that overworks the heart or the heart overworks itself? Is this love transmitted through blood?
How come I love you so much? Why do I love you so much? That your absence makes me feel lonely than your presence. When did I start loving you? Was it love at first sight? How did it happen? My heart told me to love you. Is that so? How sure are you that I truly love you from the deepest part of my heart?

Where is my mind? (at this time of loving you). Has it gone nuts? To leave a sensitive function like this to my heart! That I keep thinking of you everyday! Does my heart really think about you? Does it feel anything called love for you? How do we call a feeling from the heart? What is the attitude of my heart towards you?

LIFE

LIFE By Abdi M. Abdallah
It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find courage to let someone know how you feel. May be God wants us to meet few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful to the gift. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friends is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is an assurance that they will love you back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.
There are things you would like to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from but, don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try- never give up if you still feel you can go on- never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go. Love comes to those who still hope although they’ve been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need love although they have been hurt before, and to those who have the courage and faith to build the trust again. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile to make a dark seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile. There are moments in life that you miss someone so much that you just want o pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Hope you dream of that special someone. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough money to buy you gifts. Always put yourself in others shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may heal and bless. The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our image- otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves that we find in them. The happiness of people doesn’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.